Weekend

Today is last day of week in court.

                                              am i happy.......certainly.

Is this feel right....will it become my habit to feel happy only on weekend...will it change my feelings for happiness at all times.

now I have changed my feeling of happiness at weekend.

Earlier when weekend came i felt very happy as if every stress and pressure had vanished and when i reached home at home i am the happiest person in universe and i used to kill time by watching TV.

suddenly when i woke up it was Sunday.....

Feeling of happiness gone....suddenly stress of Monday started.

My whole Sunday destroyed sorting out for Monday......only one work whole day was done by me and that was only thinking... rethinking.......

This phase continued for some years....and suddenly i woke up....God i have wasted so much time only thinking......baseless thinking.....now i realized why i felt  happy when weekend comes....

Reason is i did lot of thinking........useless and baseless thinking and was stressed all times till Saturday came and on that day i had chance to hide from all obstacles and from society.

Now i have made up my mind and my subconscious mind is also aware of aforesaid fact and i dont think especially baseless thinking, now every day is weekend and every day i work, starting with small things to big task and is not thinking at all but only using my mind for sorting things out.

Divorce by mutual consent

Divorce by mutual consent.

Divorce petition by a husband....

Almost climbing Everest.

What to do...nothing can be done..only hope is wife and that too when she is ready for alimony or some other conditions....but if she's not ready its almost impossible.

Things are different if u have a very reasonable ground then only and that too after proving the grounds existed in your favor ....

u can seek divorce and that also after long battle.

Divorce petition by wife.

Things are completely different for a wife seeking divorce.....

Law sometimes is slightly favorable towards women on account of previous precedents in society and other reasonable considerations.....so not much of difficulty in grant and seeking of divorce.

Mutual Divorce-;

Now the question is when both parties are ready for divorce....its a affirmative position for both.....

Both husband and wife will file a joint divorce petition along with theirs affidavits before sessions court. The court will then record statement of both the parties which is called first motion and after recording the statement of both the parties, court will fix the matter after  six months for again  recording the final statement of both parties. 

This period of six month is provided to both the parties so as to afford a reasonable time to think again before their marriage is legally dissolved.

and after six months when matter is taken up and the parties are still willing to dissolve their marriage then the court shall after recording of statement of both the parties finally shall by way of its order  grant divorce and marriage is dissolved for all intent and purposes.

Now the six months period of waiting has been waived off if the court is satisfied that the parties amicably with mutual consent and peacefully wants to separate from each other.

                                                            And 

That the statutory period of one year under Section 13B (1) of Hindu Marriage Act of separation of parties is already over before the first motion itself.

                                                            And 

That all efforts for mediation/conciliation including efforts in terms of Order XXXIIA Rule 3 Civil Procedure Code/Section 23(2) of the Hindu Marriage Act/Section 9 of the Family Courts Act to reunite the parties have failed and there is no likelihood of success in that direction by any further efforts.

                                                      And

That the parties have genuinely settled their differences including alimony or any other pending issues between the parties.

                                                     And 

That the waiting period will only prolong parties agony. 

Though every effort has to be made to save  the marriage, but if there are no chances of reunion and there are no chances of fresh rehabilitation and therefore the Courts are not powerless and have jurisdiction in enabling the parties to have a better option.

It is apparent that the object of six months period is to safeguard both parties against a hurried decision if there was otherwise possibility of differences being reconciled. 

But in case there is no possibility of differences being reconciled and waiting for period of six months will not perpetuate a purposeless marriage and will prolong the agony of the parties as there is no chance of reconciliation then the court may waive off the period and may grant Divorce to the parties at initial stage without waiting for further period of six months.

Bail

Bail

Bail.
The word itself is danger, none will even dream about it.
But the situation will require us to seek bail.
Before looking in rules and laws of bails exact meaning of bail is to be understood.
Bail means freedom when u are arrested by police in simple terms and it means u will remain present before court till court direct u otherwise.
Normally u at time of bail submits to court that i shall remain before court and for this promise  i  give security of amount in writing.
Further court can ask for a  written  promise/undertaking  of a perso nown to u who shall promise that u shall remin present before court and if there's default in ur appearance ur money security and ur surety security amount is to be deposited by u in court. These are some basic procedure during bail application.
Now lets see for what offences bail are taken.
Two types of offences are there, bailable offence and non bailable offences.
In bailable offence bail is and can be given before police for ones presence before court.
In non bailable offences police can not grant bail to u. U have to take bail from court after appearing there.
In bailable offence, its ur right to bail and mostly court will not refuse to grant bail
In non  bailable offence u can not call or claim bail as ur right, here it is discretion of court to grant u bail.

Thinking

I was thinking of bail petition.

A person acussed in cheque bounce case was declared proclaimed offender by court.
His relatives approached me as accused
 was arrested. I told them bail is not possible till 3-4days.
Then acussed was produced before court and sent to judicial coustody as thought by me.
He was after 3 days again produced and again sent to judicial coustody but this time i had thought of grant of bail.
He was remanded to coustody for 7 days.
Again now my focus started on grant of bail and images of grant of bail started in my mind  like my mind /head is a projector and my thoughts/whole pic of grant episode is being reflected over my forehead.
I expected grant as per my projector but denied bail.
Now little tense, what wrong has happened, although a counsel is to be blamed but why bail rejected, in this case i can not take legal responsibility for rejection as it was not counsels fault and neither of the court although acussed has suffered but for his own fault, with these pics in mind i kept on my thoughts and at last bail was granted by superior court.
So what is this????
No worries, every case teaches us. This case had shown that every time u dont get the desirable results...sometimes time will make us suffer. But that is part of our practices which will teach us every day and we must try to learn from these setbacks without thinking what will other think.

Now comes next.
A basic question now, from what organ does a person actually think, is it really the mind which think or some other part of our body.
Very ambiguous question, if i am thinking through mind than one fact and if through my soul and heart then its another fact, from wherever iam thinking what part of my body will provide accurate result after thought.
I assume we think by mind and soul and by heart. Now what is the difference in all, which part will provide accurate and beneficial result for me, so can we stop thinking.
still  trying to figure out how to get rid of this thinking.

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Lok adalat

Today cases are listed before lok adalat...cocept of lok adalat is not new even the code of civil procedure also provides for settlement between the parties....
The complete procedure about woring and process has been given in legal service authority act and the concept of compromise is now being accepted by public at large....even the government is taking all efforts for functioning of lok adalat.
Parties in a dispute before lok adalat gets full opportunity to present thier facts and every party is heard at length by lok adalat...both parties are made aware of benefits of compromise with help of counsels on each side.
After talks and compromise the terms of each party is drawn in writing and then final award is passed by lok adalat.
The order passed by lok adalat is known as award and is a decree of civil court.
The award of lok adalat is final and can not be challenged. The only way to challenge the award is a WRIT PETITION before Honble High court....

• The award passed can be implemented against opposite party if the opposite party is not obeying the award passed by lok adalat and the party who wants to implement the award shall have to file execution petition against opposite party in a civil court in a similar way which is used for executing and implementing a Decree of civil court......

Social insecurity

• I was in a marriage.  Went with known person. I was in my dress. It felt awkard, but i was there. People were starring at me not directly. I was being guessed by my dress. Pesesnce in dress in marriage, now started bothering me with negative thoughts in mind,🤢 i felt my behavior and started seeting my feelings to normal by making and showing myself to be busy with thought that near ones will not notice me and would feel that he is busy with his phone. So such behavior in presence of some known and unknown person reminded me off our courthouse as to when how and why this feeling of insecurity comes from within. Suddenly i fixed myself in a court house scene and things there are also similar, the environment  there is also similar but i with my physical  and mental  all efforts  trys my best to give my best.  But  sometimes  the environment  there is also otherwise  . So what could be the reason for this scenario and otherwise  environment  and why this  happens...reasons may vary...but first reason is my soul, i equate my soul with my dress in court house..i feel strongly that when i am in courthouse dress there is complete  change in my nature  compared to other situation...this belief i have developed  accidently and has now become my immense nature when in court house . when u are in perfect dress code it is sure that  50 percent of things would start going in ur favour. So why so much of importance  over dress code.  I have thought  it  many a times and it is a universal  truth  that our way of dress  certainly  changes the way of ur thinking  and  way the  people   think about  you. So it is important  to be in strict  dress code.  I have felt this thing  and believes  in the  same. It does not  make  us look awkward  in the court  house,  but we feel  confident  and this  complete   dress  code  does not differentiate  us from general masses to whom we owes our duty, duty to seek justice  for them.  So dress is nothing but everything.          Everything  existing and prevelant has its own unique qualities attached with it, we can not dare to foget the importance of anything. So i have to be in a perfect state of body and mind at a particular place for diminishing the sense of security and for uplifting our confidence.  So  importance  of dress code  can not be  neglected  and must be complied.